You have had your eye on that special girl for weeks now, and you know that you want to ask her to the prom. How do you go about it though? What should you say first? What if she says no? All these questions are legitimate ones, but they are easily answered. What you need is a plan to ask her to the prom. With a plan, you will feel more confident, and can sweep her off her feet. Here are five unique ways to ask her to the prom that are likely to get a yes:
1. One of the coolest ideas ever for asking her to the prom is to make your potential date a mixed tape. This is highly effective if you are painfully shy, as it lets you get the words just right without the pressure of talking face to face. Take the time to find out what musical artists she likes, and have it playing softly in the background while you speak. Simply tell her why you like her, and why you think she would be your perfect date for prom.
2. If you are the bold and adventurous type, post a video on youtube asking for her to go to the prom. This takes some creativity and certainly a bit of bravery. There is a high likelihood that others will see the video, so make sure you want to do this before you post it. Still, if you want to make a grand gesture, a youtube video is a great way to ask a girl to the prom.
3. If you feel as though you have a good quality voice (ask your friends), then you could always give her a Top Gun moment in the lunchroom. Not all girls respond well to this particular method, so make sure she has a good sense of humor and that she is into you. Approach her and serenade her to the prom. If you think she would be embarrassed in public, then do this in private instead.
2. Send her a teddy bear and flowers along with a card asking her to the prom. This is a very strong way to get a yes, and is particularly effective if you are uncertain as to the answer. If you are simply not brave enough to walk up and ask her to the prom, then this is a great alternative.
1. Buy some advertising space in the school newspaper. This is a fun and creative way to make your feelings known, and it is also a great way to be shot down if you are not her type. Make sure she is a strong yes candidate before trying this one or you may just get laughed out of the school. Still, if you are likely to get a yes, then this is a romantic, exciting way to ask her to prom.
The best way to ask her to prom is to simply go up and ask in person, of course. For those guys that do not always have the confidence to do this, these tips are great alternatives. However you do it, make sure that you do it early enough. If not, you will find that some other guy has already asked her to prom and you will miss out. Take the plunge and you might just find out she was hoping you might ask all along. Prom is an important part of teen life so enjoy it to the fullest!
