Marriage proposals are one of those things that every woman thinks about. They envision the perfect setting, and the perfect man to be asking for their hand in marriage. For most men, the mere mention of a marriage proposal is usually enough to send them into cold sweats. This is largely due to the fact that we have some idea as males about the fact that it has to be special. If we love our bride to be, then we want the marriage proposal to be all that it can be for them. So what makes up the perfect marriage proposal anyway? After considerable research on the subject, I have constructed these relationship tips to help other men know what is considered perfect by the vast majority of women:
1. The perfect marriage proposal is original - Marriage proposals that are beat to death are not very popular with many women. The mere fact that you gave the idea no thought is enough to disappoint many women. Try to come up with something that is somewhat original in some form. It does not have to be completely original, but if you are going to use a tried and true method, find some original spin on the idea at least. Show your lady that she was worth giving it some thought to make it special and unique!
2. The perfect marriage proposal is sensitive - There are a fraction of men out there that think, “Yo Babe, marry me” is romantic and sensitive. Put the manly pride aside long enough to be sensitive and show your feelings for your marriage proposal. Nobody wants to be asked by a caveman.
3. The perfect marriage proposal is romantic - This particular aspect is very unique to the individual as what is romantic to one may not be to the other. The important thing is to know what your bride to be finds valuable in your relationship. What makes her tear up when she thinks of it (in a good way)? This is the single most important part of any perfect marriage proposal. Find what makes you and your bride unique and center the proposal around that.
4. The perfect marriage proposal is specific - Many men propose and then follow it up with some disclaimer that gives no specific time frame. If you are going to propose, then you need to be ready to do it today. Do not propose if you are not ready to actually jump in. That is just unfair and cruel.
5. The perfect marriage proposal is exciting - Nobody wants a dull marriage proposal. It is supposed to be followed by celebration. I once knew a guy who proposed on his potential bride’s lunch hour. Now that is unexciting.
6. The perfect marriage proposal is never spontaneous - Of all the things men should never do, this is at the top of the list. Think it through, and know that it is what you want. Do not propose on a whim. Not only will the proposal probably suck for the woman, but you just might change your mind.
7. The perfect marriage proposal is permanent - Marriage itself is permanent and so too should your proposal be.
