Are YOU one of those guys who have difficulty approaching women, much less asking them out for dates? Then read on to learn some practical and surefire ways to successfully talk to a woman and lessen chances of being rebuffed.
Approaching women really is a skill, much like fixing computers, playing the guitar or singing - skills that anyone can learn. If you want to meet a woman, you need to learn how to work your courage up and walk to her, then say something engaging to get her to talk to you. As in any other skill, you can’t learn it overnight – it really takes a lot of practice and it takes time before you become adept in playing the pickup game.
First rule is to avoid making the impression that your approach is just a friendly gesture. Say you are in the gym and you saw a woman that you really like. If you go to her and ask what time it is in a friendly manner, she would most likely give the time, which would end your conversation right there. But if you approach her in a different way (like telling her you find her interesting and asking for her number just as you are about to leave the gym) you could already give the impression that you wanted more than friendship. You know and she knows that you are playing the mating game, and women usually don’t like guys who seek permission first.
Also, you really don’t need a good pickup line to be able to talk to women. What you say is not what really matters, but your confidence, sincerity and truthfulness do. Women can sense at once if you’re just pretending to be nice and likable when in fact you’re a dork. They’d rather talk to someone who might not be a sweet-talker but who they feel is more sincere. You must remember that your really need not tell lies to attract women; you’ll get them just by being yourself.
You should also prepare a plan before approaching a woman. That is the most common mistakes guys do - not knowing what to say at first, and also later on. As pickup lines are taboo to most women, you better improvise something appropriate to the situation. Say, if you found her alone in a bar obviously waiting for company, you may ask if you could join her - tell her you are waiting for your buddies too and you simply don’t relish being alone in a place like that.
After a little while, you need to assess where things stand and see if you need to talk more or if you need to exit from the scene. Note that leaving her doesn’t necessarily mean you’re through with her. It may be just the opposite: you’ll want to meet her again and your early departure is just a ploy to facilitate future meetings. Since you are leaving, it would be natural to ask for her number or email address, and women are less hesitant to give away these info if they’d become interested in meeting you again.
While there is no guarantee of being successful, these simple tricks could go a long way in helping you get the skills you need to win women’s trust. Just practice it a lot, and you’re sure to get that amazing woman of your dreams soon.
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