Here are 25 recommended ways to get over him:
1. Believe that you can: Getting over him begins by believing that you can first. Dig deep and find inner strength. Claim it. Today is a new day.
2. Cut all communication: Don’t return calls, emails anything! Change your numbers. Don’t give yourself room so you can go crying back into his arms. Cut all entry points.
3. Find a new activity: Find a new outlet to focus on. Go biking or take dancing lessons. Better yet taking boxing classes and really let that steam off.
4. Look nice for you: Go get your hair done. Have your nails done too. Pick out a new dress. Look nice to please you and no one else.
5. Don’t use alcohol or drugs as escape route: You don’t deserve this self beating and physical abuse. These toxins are not solutions. In fact they make you feel even worse.
6. Start dating again: Turn a new leaf. Don’t hide under your shell. Meet new people. Don’t live your present with the past.
7. Avoid certain statements: “I’ll never get over him” expressions reinforce what you don’t want to happen. So do the opposite. Say the right lines and things are bound to change faster.
8. Therapy: If you have suicidal tendencies then go get some professional assistance. Don’t bottle it in. we don’t want you escalating the situation.
9. Expel your emotions: Cry, cry and cry. Talk, talk and talk. It’s all right to get emotional. Give yourself a week than move on.
10. Don’t pretend you’re still together: Immediately let other people know that you are not going out together anymore. Say it right away so they stop associating you with him anymore.
11. Go out with friends: Live your single life again with your friends. Discover to do things as a single again. Live life with no commitments. Free yourself.
12. Make a hate list: Write down all the lousy things you experienced in your last relationship. Then place this list on places where it will remind you what you gone thru.
13. Remove all reminders: Get a box and place all the garbage that reminds you of him. Then set a disposal date. Getting rid of them will help you get rid of him.
14. Stop thinking of the good times: Block your mind of these memories. Instead just say, “Erase. Erase. Erase.” Say these words every time you are reminded of him.
15. Act like you don’t care: Action cures fear. Do it and your fears will disappear. Start acting it then later you’ll start to believe it. Shrug him off.
16. Realize you’re not the only one: Get a prospective. You’re not the only girl whose heart has been broken. You are not making history. It’s just a normal part of life.
17. Believe you’ll love again: There’s always hope. It’s not the end of the world. Some where out there is someone who is tailor fit for you.
18. Don’t open his email if you know his password: Don’t spy on him. Let him be. Resist the temptation to take desperate action.
19. Don’t have sex with him: Don’t be an idiot. Don’t use sex to lure him back. It just makes you more attached to him even more. Instead reserve yourself.
20. Visit a cancer patient: Here’s another mind shaking experience. See that there are other people in far worse situations than yours.
21. Stay away from his friends: Stay away from them. You’ll look like a loser. Find new friends to associate with.
22. Disrupt your normal activities: Change your patterns. Get an unplanned vacation. Do something radical that will keep your mind busy and distracted.
23. Buy a puppy: Use a puppy as an outlet. Give him your love instead. Better to give it to something that will remain loyal to you and true.
24. Get even, flat his tires: Send him a message. Get angry and let it out. Hurt where it hurts the most, his car. Embarrass him.
25. Love yourself more: Finally, learn to love yourself more. Look at the mirror and say “I love being me.” After all at the end all you got is yourself to count on.
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