Men everywhere have tried to master the art of kissing. Women everywhere have wished that men could master the art of kissing. Though both are trying to reach the same goal, the problem is that men often do not have the right tools to work with. They have lips, but do not have the knowledge. Women have the want, but they find the magic hard to describe. So, exactly how do men learn to be a good kisser? Here are five easy ways to master the art of how to be a good kisser:
1. Learn about Timing - Kissing can be good or bad based simply on when you deliver it. When you go on a date, the kiss is something that should be given at the height of your emotional connection. When you first meet a woman, kissing should not be a consideration. Learn who she is, and about your attraction to one another. The kiss is too important to begin prematurely. Let the emotional connection build by getting to know who they are and what they are about. Allow them to also see who you are as well. This process will then lead to the next step in becoming a great kisser.
2. Hard or Soft? - Once you know a little something about the woman, then you will begin to feel an attraction. Sometimes that attraction is more primal in nature, while other times it is softer. This attraction will be obvious to you both as the relationship grows, and it will set the stage for the kiss. When you listen to your own heart, and the signals that your partner sends, then you are learning to become a good kisser. A hard kiss generally come naturally, and it should be in response to the same from the woman. Some women like hard, deep kisses, while others are more into soft, easy kisses. The woman will cue you, so you need not worry about knowing when to do what. Being a good kisser means responding to the cues your lady gives you.
3. Use Your Hands - Most men do not use their hands when kissing, or they use them in all the wrong ways. Men sometimes do not understand that a kiss can be on the same level of intimacy as making love. The kiss should be an extension of your feelings for the woman. Raising a hand softly to their cheek and lightly tracing her hairline as you brush away her hair from her face can be powerful.
4. Keep Breath Fresh - When you are with your woman, it is absolutely paramount to keep your breath fresh at all times. This can be done with any number of breath mints, or even a portable toothbrush. Whatever method you use to keep your breath fresh, use it after every meal, snack, and smoke. Kissing a woman with bad breath will not get you a place on the good kisser list.
5. Let the kiss be the end - A kiss that lingers on the lips of a woman is the most effective kiss of all. When you have a wonderful kiss on the doorstep to her apartment, let that be the end of the story. Do not attempt to go inside, and do not try to elevate the situation. Let the kiss instead be the last memory of you until next time, and lovingly walk away. A kiss can be the difference maker, and a lingering kiss will win you another date every single time.
Becoming a good kisser is really all about learning to read your lady. If you know what she likes and what she does not like, then the kiss will go where it should on its own. The kiss should never be forced, and it should never be laced with ulterior motives. A great kiss hints at things to come, but it does not demand it.
