There are some guys who prepare Brazilian goddesses like Giselle Bundchen while others prefer the all American hotties like Jessica Simpson and Jennifer Aniston while it is still quite a big mystery on what makes guys develop a fetish for specific types of girls, rather, a specific race, is doesn’t help but take a shot on their dream girl.
A lot of guys have grown a fond liking for Asian women, may it be for their rich culture, their unique eyes, their porcelain and milky skin or their lithe frames, there may be various reasons why they are falling for these Oriental beauties but how to snag one is a completely different story.
Well the first things that you should do when approaching an Asian girl is not to act like an insensitive fool. Quite vague? Well, here’s a usual scenario, a guy sees an Asian girl at a bar, he approaches her and tries to strike up a conversation, some Western guys assume that Asian girls don’t know how to speak in English even if they are in Western soil already so they end up talking slow and loudly like, “HI H-O-W’-S I-T G-O-I-N-G?” only to find out that the Asian girl that they’re into is actually very fluent in English. You may think that assuming that they can’t speak in English is an act made in good faith but it is actually pretty insulting and rude. Another thing that’s a common irk among Asian women is when guys assume that just because they’re of Asian roots, they’re already Chinese or Japanese. If you don’t want your date to get offended and leave you, you must first understand that their roots matter to them so saying that China and Japan is just the same, does not only make you look uncultured, it’s also pretty dumb.
As for each culture, they all have their own sets of “Dos and Don’ts” so if you really want to impress you Asian girl, do your research on what they do in her country and not get things messed up. It’s actually best to just tell your fate politely that you don’t know rather than act like a know-it-all and just end up making a fool of yourself.
Attracting Asian girls is really no rocket science, they’re pretty much like other girls, the only difference is that they’re of different descent and just like any other person, they would greatly appreciate it that you respect their traditions and views. As for physical tastes, of course it varies depending on what the girl wants. Some can look pass not being Asian while there are those who wants to stick with their own kind. It may seem unfair but just respect her decision and don’t take it as being a racist, it’s just a matter of preference.
Also, don’t try to bore her to death with how much information that you know about her country because more often than not, she’s already heard it a million times over and knows it like the back of her hand. While she will appreciate your “genuine†likeness with her roots, you can just drop the act because what she wants to know more about is you.
Generally, just be yourself around her and try to have good time but if all else still fails then it is time to move on. There’s no point in concentrating on someone who’s clearly not into you. Like other girls out there, there are still a lot of Asian girls out there who might just be your perfect match.
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Tammy
Comment by Tammy Tran — March 10, 2007 @ 12:24 pm